A muppet

Every time I’ve thrown unconditional loyalty and blind enthusiasm at someone, I noticed that they started loving me less.

This is probably because my vibrancy took a backseat. I just became an extension of that person’s personality.

Let’s get real. There’s no one more boring than the person who thinks you shine no matter what you do. That’s like being in a relationship with a muppet.

Don’t be anyone’s groupie, little ones.

The only way you (or I) will ever find love is to find out who we are, stay rigid in our values and passions, and know that we’ll walk away from the entanglement just as solid if we have to.

The kicker is that none of this can be planned, either. “Love is like a prayer and can’t be planned, you just fall into its arms because your belief undoes your disbelief.”

I’ve never planned any real love. I’ve loved 2 men and they were both surprises, everyone else was a projection.

Think about how FEW people actually find and keep a lasting love. Boredom leads to restlessness which leads to resentment.

Ugh. This is getting too long. Shrug emoji and may God help us all.